There
are times when the choices we have to make are just too hard. We call on our
life experience, on the voices of our parents as they spin around in our heads;
we weigh the impact of the decision on who it will impact; what will people
think of me? Knowing that critical eyes are on us exacerbates the feeling that
the way we make our choices is somehow faulty or less than adequate.
If
your teenage and early adult years were to be re-run before you, I wonder
whether you would cringe at the way you spoke to your parents, spoke about your
teachers, perhaps you were the master of putdowns, maybe you excluded people
from your group of friends. Did alcohol or drugs affect your relationships,
your behaviour, your attitude? Were there things you said or did that have
irreparably damaged you or your options for your future?
About
56 AD Paul wrote from Corinth to the Roman community. He reminded them that the
ten commandments were summed up in the one, great commandment, You shall love
your neighbour as yourself (13:9). Paul exhorted to choose good and to avoid
harming their neighbours, to walk in the light and throw off ‘the works of
darkness’.
And
to do this, Paul’s advice is: Clothe
yourself with the Lord Jesus Christ.
This
really does mean that when you are struggling to make important decisions and
weighing up your choices you can put
on the mind of the Christ and be clothed in him, so that your decisions will be
opportunities for growth. And even after all these years of fearing our pasts,
being clothed in Christ is a step towards self-forgiveness and acceptance. That
really was then, and this is now.
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